Let’s All Breathe

A commitment to connect with our members to be agents of change and unity.

By Michelle Mason

FRM JulAug Perspective

Michelle Mason, FASAE, CAE President & CEO, Association Forum

“I Can’t Breathe” are three words that changed the world. These are the final words spoken by George Floyd, an unarmed black man who was killed by a police officer in Minneapolis. These are the final words heard from Eric Garner, an unarmed black man who died in New York City from excessive force used by law enforcement. These despicable crimes are happening far too often. The black and brown communities cannot breathe until there is a greater level of accountability in addressing the systemic racism in America and all communities unite for a cure.

As a black female, I grieve because these words could have been spoken by my brothers, uncles, cousins and friends. These words are forever engraved in my soul, because it reminds me there is more work ahead and complacency has no place.

While this is a tense time for everyone, and there is so much raw pain and emotion, the peaceful protests are an opportunity to elevate the voices of those seeking to be heard. It is the youth who are driving the change and demanding that we uphold the words of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. when he said, “I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”

Let’s open our minds and hearts as we start to reopen our world. Please use this as an opportunity to have deep and meaningful conversations with someone from a different race or ethnic background. Someone with whom you wouldn’t normally associate. Seek to authentically understand their journey and path. How did it shape their life? Be consistent in your compassion to develop a meaningful connection. Let’s move from not breathing to breathing together.

How do we breathe? People want change and action. It is a systematic approach. Let’s move from protesting to voting for policy change. Let’s move from statements to action. This isn’t a black or white issue or a partisan issue. It is a humanity issue. We are all created equal and want to be treated fairly. We want a welcoming environment. An environment that creates a sense of belonging and connectedness, that engages individuals in an authentic manner, in which uniqueness is valued, respected and supported through opportunities and interaction.

Bias, discrimination and racism have no place at Association Forum. We represent association professionals from all backgrounds who are committed to advancing the practice of association management in their industries and to social justice for all.

We are committed to uniting with our members to be agents of change and unity. Let’s use this moment as an opportunity to hear, heal and help. It is time to change the narrative and uplift the conversations for a united and peaceful tomorrow. We know the problems. Let’s unite on solutions. Let’s all breathe.

About the Author

Michelle Mason, FASAE, CAE is the President & CEO of Association Forum.

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